Episode 24

The Woman Who Changed Chess: Susan Polgar on Becoming a Grandmaster

Published on: 29th October, 2025

Susan Polgar’s father believed geniuses weren’t born, they were made. So when his three-year-old daughter found an old chess set in their Budapest apartment, he saw an opportunity to prove it. Susan quickly learned the game, but soon realized the real challenge: convincing the world that girls could play just as well as boys - which she did by becoming the first woman to earn the Grandmaster title under the same standards as men. In this episode, she shares how she rewrote the gender norms of chess, overcame deeply rooted sexism, and helped redefine what young girls believe they can achieve.


"You need to set a goal. And in this case, you need to set the highest goal possible. So even if we fall short somewhat, we still get further than if we set a lower goal."


Hear Susan talk about:

  • How, at six, she decided to specialize in chess (and not math)
  • The sexism she faced as a young girl rising in a male-dominated field
  • Why her grandmother's words shaped her sense of perseverance
  • What came after winning world championships
  • The lessons chess teaches about focus, decision-making, and resilience

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Tell Me What It's Like
Everyday People. Defining Moments.
Ever wonder what it really feels like to live through something extraordinary?

On Tell Me What It’s Like, host Stacy Raine talks with people who’ve faced defining moments – from running a world marathon to surviving a rare illness to building something entirely new. Hear the real experiences behind extraordinary choices as they discuss how it happened, what it felt like, and the lessons they learned along the way.

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Stacy Raine

I was 16 when I conducted my first interview. I was a nervous high school kid assigned to interview a WWII veteran. It was an incredibly emotional conversation, and an experience I still think about to this day. I didn’t know it then, but that moment would shape everything that followed.

As a nonprofit communicator and podcast producer, I’ve spent my career thinking about the stories we all have to share. Tell Me What It’s Like unearths the backstory to the small and large moments that changed everything.

One of my biggest beliefs is that sharing stories connects us – as long as we're willing to listen.